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June 24th, 2012, 03:05 PM
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So I texted BM a few hours ago to see if she can bring DSD home tonight since my ex and his wife will be here and it would be rude for me to leave. Plus, it really shouldn't be MY responsibility to go pick up DSD. She never texted me back. DH has something going on tonight so he can't go. He has tried calling her numerous times and I think she is hitting the button to hang up on us b/c it doesn't even go to voicemail, just hangs up. She doesn't have any type of custody of DSD, so I would think that she would need to answer the phone if we are calling. I hate dealing with this stuff. I never have any problems with my ex in regards to my kids. In fact, they are coming over here to hang out tonight. We all get along really well. However, I will never be able to be friends with someone who caused bodily harm to her own child. I don't know how I am going to be able to put up with this for the next 12 years!
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June 24th, 2012, 08:05 PM
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That sounds hugely immature, and you're right, I'm fairly sure she's breaking some kind of custody law by refusing to answer her phone while your dsd is in her care. I'm sorry.

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June 25th, 2012, 11:42 AM
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Ugh! How frustrating. I hope she eventually answers & brings her home! I just don't get why these bio moms have to be so difficult.

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June 25th, 2012, 06:32 PM
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yeah BM pulls this one. It gets really old and I just keep calling and calling. I will hang up and call straight back and every other time leave a message. She might have your number blocked if it doesn't even go to voicemail.
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June 26th, 2012, 03:38 AM
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That does sound frustrating! ((hugs))
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June 27th, 2012, 05:52 PM
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She claimed that her phone was in the car when she did eventually call back. I'm not sure I believe it though since it didn't go to voicemail. DSD is going with her for a month starting next Monday. I hate that b/c when she comes back there is always a huge adjustment period. Last year she took her out of state without permission. We made it quite clear that it couldn't happen again. After you are found to be responsible for breaking over 20 bones in your child's body it is going to be darn near impossible for anyone who knows about it to ever trust you with that child again. I can't believe how much the justice system failed this child! Because the prosecutor was lazy, she got off without any punishment other than losing custody. WTH???
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Gavyn & Kendric - 8
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