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July 13th, 2012, 03:15 PM
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OH MY GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously!?!?!? That is just TERRIBLE!!!
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July 13th, 2012, 03:34 PM
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I feel sorry for the girls. At least they have you to spend time with them. Maybe a trip out for Icecream or something similar would help with the disappointment.


And as for her. She is slowly but surely making her bed and she will have to lie in it. One day when the girls don't want to see her or talk to her because of all the times she has done this stuff then she will know how it feels.

to your girls!
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July 13th, 2012, 03:37 PM
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WOW that's worse my DSD's BM. Our BM has yet to see DSD since we've taken residential custody. But to take the girls and then say to pick them up cause I want to go to Vegas is something else.
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July 13th, 2012, 04:05 PM
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I'd refuse to pick them up, plain and simple. Neely's ex tried that once and he refused to get them till the end of her visit with them. She never tried it again.
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July 13th, 2012, 04:10 PM
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Those poor kids. Your mom doesn't WANT you this weekend. How terrible.

I agree with Rachel. She's not "playing mommy." She IS their mother. And they should come before any last minute trips.
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July 13th, 2012, 05:26 PM
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I'm appalled that a grown woman would act that way. I don't even have words.

The poor girl.
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July 13th, 2012, 07:47 PM
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As a woman who took 5 years & IVF to get pregnant, I just can't fathom women who don't want to be with their children.

Those kids are lucky to have you as their true mother!
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July 14th, 2012, 07:26 AM
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Oh Wow! I do not understand this at all.
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July 14th, 2012, 11:23 AM
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Oh em gee. She is not considered a mother in my eyes.

I would drop everything I was doing if my children weren't with me, even if it meant only spendin 5 minutes with them!!

This "girl" appalls me. She isn't a woman in my eyes either.

They are so lucky to have you as a step momma
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July 14th, 2012, 07:44 PM
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oh wow
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July 15th, 2012, 10:16 AM
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Dude what? Like...seriously?

I wouldn't pick them up unless you think she'd leave them alone with some space cadet. Also your BD? Please buy him a beer from me. Seriously that man is....BRAVE.
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July 17th, 2012, 10:52 AM
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Being a teenager is hard. And parenting a teenager is hard. I'm convinced R is gonna make DH just stroke right on out. Poor man. I'm sure they'll get it together eventually. As long as she knows her mom cares I'd stay out of it.
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July 18th, 2012, 05:23 PM
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Your BD sounds like a decent guy, first of all, and you're lucky for that.

Your DH also sounds like a good guy, and you're very lucky for that as well.

The BM sounds like a complete immature poor excuse for a mother, but whatever. She is making her bed and has to lie in it, like another poster said.

At least the girls are lucky to have a stepmom like you, and someone stable that they know they can count on. It's awesome how much they adore you, that they'd ask for you like that. I would definitely take that as a huge compliment to your parenting abilities. So congrats on that!
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July 19th, 2012, 06:45 AM
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Sorry you have to deal with that. I don't understand how a mother can go without seeing her kids and then not take the time she does have with them.
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July 19th, 2012, 07:32 AM
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Well I'm glad that your Dh didn't get them and that BM did something with them. Both of my DSS's are bad about sunscreen. And if you put vinegar on it it will help a lot or aloe or corn huskers lotion kept in the fridge so it's cold. But you want to mix the aloe with a bit of regular lotion because the aloe dries and shrinks up and it can make your skin feel tight and it hurts. I hope that your DSD feels better soon and that BM starts talking to DSD1.


And your BD really sounds like an awesome guy! I wish more BD's and BM's were like him! Things would be a lot easier if they were!
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