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August 31st, 2012, 11:20 AM
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We always know when you are doing it.

C had this horrible rash that we were treating as jock itch, because BF gets it really easily too. BM swore she was putting the cream on him 3 times a day and that she didn't know why it was getting worse.....

This rash was so bad when he came back to us 3 and a half days later that it was almost bleeding...we kept going with the anti fungal cream and left him diaper free( we are potty training because of this rash) and after 2 full days and a pointless ped appt his rash is almost gone....

why lie when you are only hurting your child.

She had been so great lately that I wasnt expecting a lie from her at all. It breaks my heart.

She had been working really hard to be friendly and even complimented me last saturday. We are both working to have a good relationship so C can see we are all one big unit.

This just reminds me of how awful she can be. I almost garuntee that C comes back and no one in her family keeps up with the potty training thing.

SO frustrating
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August 31st, 2012, 11:43 AM
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Because she's lazy? I don't know. I sometimes wonder whey we even try to understand people.
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August 31st, 2012, 11:55 AM
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I suppose she might have been embarassed. The question is why didn't she apply the cream? Poor little guy!
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August 31st, 2012, 12:01 PM
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who knows. she maybe did but didn't let him have diaper free time. or didn't change the diapers often enough. that alone would make it worse.

I'm glad he's clearning up!
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August 31st, 2012, 12:46 PM
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Thanks. I think she really tries but she works and he goes to grandparents houses who refuse to follow her directions and they tell her shes not a good parent so it doesnt help. Bfs mom has offered to watch him full time for us if her parents dont agree. BM said she let him be diaper free till he pooped on the floor...

He poops at 7 am every day and stands there like a deer in the headlights....how do you miss that?

On the bright side I think he dislikes the way a wet diaper feels now that he has been nakie for 2 and a half days he ripped it off during nap time and didnt pee anywhere.
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August 31st, 2012, 02:46 PM
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Poor kiddo. Sorry.

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August 31st, 2012, 05:02 PM
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Poor lil guy!!!!
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September 1st, 2012, 05:07 PM
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*sigh* we just sent him home with very specific instructions....Lets see how he looks on wed.
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