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November 14th, 2011, 08:25 AM
my.estrella's Avatar Ashley
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There's a lot of back story so I will try and sum up so its not a novel. July I moved to Texas to live with my boyfriend. It was serious, it was planned and thought out, we were even talking marriage. Well we decided to try to get pregnant, which wasn't much more than me paying a little closer attention to my cycle. We got insanely lucky and I got pregnant the first cycle. He freaked out. It happened too soon, I should get an abortion now that we know its not that hard for us to get pregnant. Well clearly I told him no. Then it became major denial. He didn't believe I was even pregnant and if I was it couldn't be his. He eventually came around and realized I really am pregnant and I thought we had gotten past him denying that its his. I mean its ridiculous, I got pregnant that first cycle of us living together. We did it like rabbits, he shouldn't be so surprised.

Last night he tells me his Mom died and he's going to be here for 2 1/2 weeks. Then picks a fight with me because I asked if he wanted to go to the ultrasound. I do not understand. What is there to question? My last period was July 20 and my cycle lasts 24 days. I had to go to the ER where they did an ultrasound and confirmed this. How do you sit there and argue with facts?!

So I don't know what to think right now. Nothing has turned out as planned or promised. I am busting my butt to get set up again and make sure I'm ready when this baby comes. I just can't wrap my head around what he's thinking. Where does he think the baby came from?

So that's that. The one good thing is this means I don't have to fight him on girl names. His pick was Guinevere Peach. Which I can barely spell without spell check. So if this is a girl she will be Harper Allyn and if its a boy he will be Darren Blythe or Lennon Sawyer.
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November 14th, 2011, 08:46 AM
Mom2DyJessAva's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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what a JERK...seriously what the heck is wrong with him?

im so sorry he is putting you through this..doesnt he realize it only takes ONE time...he should take a sex ed class or something..

and yay for picking names..im not a fan of the name he picked out but LOVE yours!!

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November 14th, 2011, 02:31 PM
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meh, what a jerk!! I'm sorry you're going through this!

congratulations on your pregnancy

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November 14th, 2011, 07:07 PM
rugby_girl's Avatar <3 my boy :)
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<3 I'll be your baby daddy and you can be mine... who needs men? hahahahaha JK

Jaime, single mommy to Austin (2/8/11)

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November 14th, 2011, 07:47 PM
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Sorry to hear that and congrats on your pregnancy ! I love those names

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November 14th, 2011, 09:07 PM
my.estrella's Avatar Ashley
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Originally Posted by rugby_girl View Post
<3 I'll be your baby daddy and you can be mine... who needs men? hahahahaha JK
lol you know when I announced the pregnancy on fb I said I made it all by myself. People were sooo very confused.

Thanks everyone. If possible I'm going to set aside the money and treat myself to a 3d ultrasound. There's a local place running a special where you get a $50 credit for free so their basic package is only $25. I think Kenna would love seeing the pictures and might help her understand more.
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November 15th, 2011, 05:26 AM
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thats cute aboyut the 3d ultrasound and love your names you picked out

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