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January 20th, 2016, 10:04 AM
lapoema's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I have two girls, ages 6 and 9. Hubby and I are thinking of trying for a third. I have gone off my depression medication in order to TTC and it's really hard. I need to make a decision quickly so I can either go back on my meds or get pregnant (and get it over with, so to speak.)

I got pregnant with an IUD in several months ago, and had an early miscarriage. I was really excited to be pregnant and sad when it ended. But for some reason, actually TRYING to get pregnant scares the bejeezus out of me.

There are so many reasons to have a baby! And I have never (in the past) had difficulty getting pregnant, thankfully. We have an extra room and we can afford it. Hubby is finally OK with having a third. But every time we BD without a condom, I freak out! I mean, waking up at night with tears and cold sweats freaking out. I don't know why.

We have talked about just stopping this nonsense and having him get the snip, but I keep changing my mind.

I am an emotional disaster. Please help!
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August 26th, 2017, 05:39 PM
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did you end up pregnant?
AF 15 Nov 2017 Nz time praying for a rainbow heathy baby <3 All I want for Christmas is a BFP!!

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missed m/c 28 march 2010- Toni 11 weeks CP 11 march 2015- Katie 4 weeks 10 May 2015 Lilly- 4 weeks CP blighted ovum 2017
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