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December 19th, 2009, 07:11 AM
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Blah, I guess being on my period doesn't help matters, but I've been so emotional the past few days

Last nite, around 10pm, I noticed that I had a voicemail on my cell. So I listen to it, and wouldn't ya know, it's my Darling RE calling to check on me

Is it weird for me to say that I miss him and I'm going to miss him so much more in the months ahead??????? HE is really my only apprehension about adoption. I know in my heart that I want to move forward with adoption, and DH feels the same, but when I think about my RE it makes me think, "well, maybe just ONE more time..." UGH! I know we will go back there when it's time to try FET again or to move forward with TTC. But that won't be until 2011 at least......ugh!

I'm going to call him Monday and let him know what's going on. I don't want him to think that he did anything wrong. And I definitely appreciate him calling to check in
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December 19th, 2009, 07:15 AM
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That is very, very sweet of your RE to be so incredible & caring like that ...wow, you are a lucky lady ! Just wanted to say here's a little hug coming your way
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December 19th, 2009, 07:52 AM
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What a sweet guy! I'm sure he will understand where you guys are at and why you need to move forward with adoption before trying any more MA. When you are ready to go back, it sounds like he'll be there for you with open arms!

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December 19th, 2009, 08:30 AM
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What a sweet RE!

I am sure he will understand your moving ahead with adoption. And I know you want to do a FET in the future, so I am sure he'll be ready when you guys are!

Hang in there, hon! Waiting is the hardest part, I think. What sort of time frame are you looking at with the adoption?
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December 19th, 2009, 08:44 AM
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Aw how sweet! I'm sure he will understand and will be there for you when you are ready to ttc again! Hugs

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December 19th, 2009, 09:10 AM
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Thanks girls I thought it was super sweet

Our timeline is about 6-8 months, a year maximum. So definitely by this time next year I would think we would have our little man

The wait is going to be torture!!!!

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December 19th, 2009, 11:09 AM
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I think it's awesome that he personally calls to check in on you. I definitely think that he will be happy with your adoption decision.
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December 19th, 2009, 11:36 AM
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What a great doctor! I'm sorry that you are feeling a little blue, Brandi, but I bet once you get the ball rolling with the home study, time will just fly and you'll be posting pics of your little man before you know it!!

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December 19th, 2009, 04:19 PM
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Oh, your RE sounds GREAT, Brandi! You have every right to be emotional right now, but please know you still have those options whenever you know the time is right, so you aren't letting go completely, just postponing to give another baby a chance at a wonderful, loving life. There is nothing more self sacrificing than that, and you get arms' full of love too!!! So, it's win win.

You are such a sweetie, it's no wonder your RE is checking up on you. You would probably be his favorite patient, even if he's only seen you for only 1 cycle
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