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September 11th, 2010, 05:10 AM
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Well AF showed up late last night. I'm very tired, sad, depressed. I think I'm done.


On a really positive note, my cousin works for an infertility clinic in NJ. They're doing a study and need couples for IVF. The difference is they freeze the egg before fertilization. It's all free. She got us in but we live 5 hours away!!
How am I suppose to manage work, IVF and a 4 year old?

I think I'm done.
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September 11th, 2010, 05:15 AM
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Oh goodness...I'm so sorry! Could you take some time off work to do the free IVF? I hate for your to lose that opportunity. Or could you do the monitoring locally and just the retrieval and transfer there? I would reach out to friends and family and see what kind of help/support they might offer so you can take advantage of this awesome opportunity.

(((((Hugs)))))) Good luck!
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September 11th, 2010, 08:21 AM
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I agree.
I would hate to see you miss such an awesome oppurtunity. That would be tragic.
Maybe you could call the clinice & tell them your dilemma. Maybe they can work with you. I know alot of RE's satellite with other doctors for the conveniece of patients.
I hope it all works out for you!!!!
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September 11th, 2010, 08:23 AM
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Thank you Ladies.

I know it's stupid to miss the opportunity. I have to remind myself every second, because this morning I was ready to throw in the towel.
I will see what my cousin can do for us. Hopefully they can work with us.
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3 beautiful in heaven

6/08 miscarriage 7 weeks
10/08 ectopic- surgery saved tube
5/09 ectopic pregnancy

4/10 IUI w/ inj. #1 Menopur BFN
6/10 IUI w/ inj. #2 300 Follistrim BFN
7/10 IUI w/ inj. #3 300 Follistrim BFN
8/4/10 IUI w/ inj. #4 300 Follistrim BFN
8/30/10 IUI w/inj. #5 300 Follistrim and 300 Gonal-F BFN
10/2011- successful lap to remove mild endometriosis
11/5/11-IUI w/ inj. #6 300 Menopur BFN
11/11-Femara w/ IUI #7 STILL WAITING!!
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September 11th, 2010, 10:50 AM
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Aww sweety so sorry the witch showed:-( I hope you guys can figure something out and people can help you out so you dont miss out on the oppertunity. *HUGS* praying everything works out. KUP!
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September 11th, 2010, 10:53 AM
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*hugs*What an amazing opportunity, but an awful dilemma! hoping things work out for you hun... and sorry it didn't happen this month.
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September 11th, 2010, 03:57 PM
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Aww... man.... I'm so sorry about being out this cycle. But it doesn't sound like you are truly out! I think you HAVE to figure out a way to make this other opportunity work... you'll work it all out! You just have to!
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September 11th, 2010, 06:00 PM
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BIG HUGS!! Im so sorry..i know its tough..we just feel like there is no fight left in us..its definately not easy! Well just pray about it all and if its meant to be it will be..if not..well then its not meant to be..hang in there hun..you will get your chance! BIG HUGS!
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