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October 5th, 2010, 09:28 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
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So today is my 24th birthday, and I know it is lame but I am feeling super emotional today. Not sure if its just pms coming on because I am 10 dpo today. I just feel like the older I get the more people around me have babies, this has been the hardest year so far so I'm sure it will just get worse. I don't know what my problem is, I usually love my birthday but today I just want to cry all day. I hate this, and I hate how infertility seems to rule every aspect of my life and unless I am willing to completely give up (which I just can't do) there is no way to avoid it. Sorry, and thanks for listening to my little pity party rant!
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October 5th, 2010, 09:32 AM
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Hey I understand. I am 24 and all my friends have babies. Its really tough to go and hang out and have them hand their babies over for me to hold and all I can think about is Will I ever have one of my own? Keep your head up. Our time is coming!
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October 5th, 2010, 09:46 AM
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First, Happy Birthday! I know it seems hard to celebrate your birthday when it just feels like time is slipping away from you.

I sure hope by this time next year you have something really special to celebrate about.

Yet another wonderful siggy by HeatherW.... thank you so much!!!

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October 5th, 2010, 09:59 AM
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*hugs* Happy birthday! I hope in the next couple days you are able to get a late birthday present in a BFP. Good luck.

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October 5th, 2010, 10:23 AM
~*Jackie*~'s Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm still wishing you a happy Birthday! Hopefully you can take your mind off of it all for a while and celebrate!
Our TTC journey: 6 cycles Clomid, lap surgery/ D&C, IUI, 2 x IVF; 41 cycles- BFN.
IVF#1 (March 2010) Transferred two 8-cell grade A (perfect) embies- BFN and heartbroken.

IVF#2/FET#1 (Jan/Feb 2011):Transferred two (7&8 cell) grade A (PERFECT) embies- BFN again.
IVF#3/FET#2 (November 2014) Transferred two perfect blasts- First BFP Ever.

BABY BOY- JULY 2015 @ 34 weeks 6 days

Our family is now complete. The End.

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October 5th, 2010, 10:57 AM
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Happy Birthday! We're almost birthday buddies - mine is on Thursday I hope you end up getting a great birthday present this month with a nice BFP! Good luck!
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October 5th, 2010, 03:11 PM
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I know your pain...the last time I celebrate my birthday was in 2006. Infertility really takes a toll on a person, and I'm sorry that it's so rough for you right now
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October 5th, 2010, 03:49 PM
MommytoaMiracle's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Happy Birthday!
I know the feeling of each year passing hurting more & more.
Hang in there, hun! Go have a drink!
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October 6th, 2010, 02:55 AM
sweetdreamer1's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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yes.. first things first..so HAPPY BIRTHDAY..!! and now to the sad part...i can totally relate...im 10dpo too..n even got a bfn..!!! well but im really praying for u to get a BFP in another 2-3 days time.. n then u can have a bleated birthday party..!!!good luck girl..!!! hope u get the greatest gift a lady can get this birthday..

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