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April 28th, 2011, 02:59 PM
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..That most of my friends expect nothing less than to "try" for one month and have a healthy baby 9 months later, and I just took fertility drugs, had all of the sperm my husband has to give shot directly into my uterus on the very day that I was ovulating.....and I still don't feel very hopeful . What I wouldn't give to be a "normal" couple. Sometimes I feel like I live on a totally different planet.
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April 28th, 2011, 04:18 PM
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Truer words have never been spoken! (((HUGS)))
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April 28th, 2011, 06:25 PM
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((hugs)) I feel that way too sometimes, especially when friends & family have "oops" babies.
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April 28th, 2011, 06:59 PM
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oh how I know this feeling... We're all here for you!
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April 28th, 2011, 07:16 PM
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April 28th, 2011, 08:31 PM
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Totally get this feeling all the time!
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April 29th, 2011, 12:42 AM
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i feel your pain as well. it makes it harder for us now because we were informed we're going to be aunt/uncle again. I also work in a grocery store so I see "oops" babies all the time and, really, people that should not be allowed to reproduce but can easily. good luck [hugs]
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April 29th, 2011, 07:01 AM
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very true statement.
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April 29th, 2011, 07:52 AM
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EXACTLY why i'm having a really hard time connecting with my friends lately...I just feel like im in a completely different world than they are
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April 29th, 2011, 09:32 AM
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I'm right there with all of you ladies - surrounded by preggos and babies, and I have nothing in common with any of them.
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April 29th, 2011, 12:11 PM
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((hugs)) I feel that way too sometimes, especially when friends & family have "oops" babies.
Thats totally how I felt for the whole time we were TTC with MA!!!
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April 29th, 2011, 02:19 PM
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(hugs) truer words have not been spoken.
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April 29th, 2011, 05:41 PM
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BIG HUGS Sweetie..after all the time it took me (over 3 years) to get here..it still hurts..and people all around me try for a month and get pregnant right away! Its not fair!! Hang in there sweetie! HUGS!
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