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April 5th, 2013, 03:39 AM
Lucy S.'s Avatar POAS addict
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Anytime i wonder if this is God's plan for me to no longer have kids (or never in the first place since I use TTCMA) things make it so clear that it is not.
Not trying to offend anyone but I see so many people who either do not want to be PG, or have no business being pregnant in the first place.
sorry to vent. I blame PMS.
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April 5th, 2013, 05:40 AM
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You are not alone sweetie...It kills me how someone who does not want to be pregnant or sometimes does not give that much effort gets pregnant in no time...take teen pregnancy for instance... I was told all the time in high school that sex was so bad and I could get pregnant.. to heck with that...

It took me a LONG time to head in the direction of MA but to me it is just the path GOD wants us down. It helps not hinders and there IS NOT WRONG with MA

I am so sorry you are feeling this way but you have every right in the world to vent as you please. Do not feel bad my dear I wish I could take away every bad feeling you have and make it all better for you.
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April 5th, 2013, 06:14 AM
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I feel this way alot. Esp since my loss. I see people that obviously can't afford baby care, people that smoke or drink while pregnant, and of course at work, I see 16 and 17 yo's pregnant all the time (we are an alt ed and technical school, alt ed has alot of pregnancies).
It is soooo hard to understand why a 16yo kid who smokes while they are pregnant deserves to have a baby while none of us do.
I'm sorry for all you've been through. It's not fair at all.
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April 5th, 2013, 06:48 AM
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April 5th, 2013, 07:52 AM
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I was just talking to my sister about this last night! I told her everytime I hear that somone that is pregnant that is not what i would call picture perfect, i get pissed. My brother and his gf (which has had a really messed up past, ex-meth user, drinks like a fish, smokes a pack a day... her not him) got pg i almost lost my SH**!!! and she had said to me a couple days ago (7 months pregnant) she would love to have a smoke right now... ugh puke puke
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April 5th, 2013, 08:36 AM
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April 5th, 2013, 12:57 PM
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Love ya Lucy!!! Here for you!!!

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April 5th, 2013, 01:28 PM
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April 5th, 2013, 06:45 PM
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Hang in there honey. It's so hard especially when you see those girls that fall pregnant at the drop of a hat and are sucky parents.
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April 6th, 2013, 10:09 AM
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I work in a hospital and see the same things, it gets hard some days because some of these women do not take care of themselves or their unborn child. There was a problem once when a woman when to smoke while in labor!! Grrr, and then some who are drug addicts poping out kids like no tomorrow. There is nothing wrong or shameful with ttc with ma,ivf etc as long as you bring that child into a loving home and take good care of them because they truly are a gift from God. It will happen,just not always when or how we want it too.
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April 7th, 2013, 06:30 AM
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Oh Lucy your time will come... We are on God's time not ours.

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April 7th, 2013, 04:22 PM
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I am having a lot of the same feelings this week. It is hard to remain optimistic when you don't know how things are going to pan out and everyone else is pregnant without even trying. Sometimes I kick myself for not TTC when I was in my early twenties, but it wouldn't be with the wonderful husband that I have now. I hope we all get our bfp soon!!!
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April 7th, 2013, 05:19 PM
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Sorry about the rant there LOL!
I need to stop doing the "read new posts" because I stumble on things I don't need to be reading right now
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