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January 14th, 2007, 11:39 AM
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Join Date: May 2006
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AF showed yesterday am. I'm so disappointed I just sat there and cried and cried. My DH was trying to be positive and comfort me but it just wasn't helping. I just wanted this IUI to work soooo bad. I had such high hopes. To top it off DH was supposed to go riding (4-wheelers) up in the snowy mountains with his friends but he couldn't becuase we couldn't afford it now that I have to go back to the Dr. My dr is an hour and a half away and I will have to take the truck because the roads are icy now and thats alot of $ for gas. Not to mention just RE appt is expensive and we are 4 days away from payday. I felt like it was my fault he couldn't go. He didn't feel that way but I did. Stupid She just ruined everything. Thanks for listening to me vent.
04/30/08been through all of our classes and home studies and waiting to look through the kid books for adoption !!!
starting IVF- decided against IVF
starting glucophage try I more IUI bfn
Starting adoption classes!! Finally getting the process started
1 laporoscopy, 1 mc, 6mo's of clomid, 3 mo's of injections and IUI's
countless blooddraws and ultrasounds. Hopefully a BFP soon!!
Kelly 29 and JD 29 adopting #1 (or maybe two)
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January 14th, 2007, 12:09 PM
Daniellea22's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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oh no im so sorry. i was really hoping it had worked for you. Be careful driving in the ice and dont be so hard on yourself, i doubt dh is upset, he loves you
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January 14th, 2007, 12:39 PM
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I am so,so sorry.

I can imagine your sadness, as i know just how much we want our IVF to work in April

I hope your RE comes up with another plan of attack!

Good luck hun and i hope the witch goes and dosen't come back for 9 mths


Waiting for god to bless me with my 1st child when the time is right.
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January 14th, 2007, 02:40 PM
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I am sooo sorry! Sending you lots of hugs!

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January 15th, 2007, 09:09 AM
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I'm so sorry that AF showed. I hope that you get your BFP really, really soon.

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January 15th, 2007, 09:20 AM
*Melissa*'s Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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aawww I'm so sorry!!!
AF ruined my day yesterday too... I will be praying for you, I really hope you get a BFP soon!! There is always still hope, so hang in there!!! It sounds like DH really cares about YOU and not the money, so don't worry about that
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January 15th, 2007, 09:25 AM
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Oh....I'm so sorry hun. TTC can really add up in price one you through in an RE. My 1st cycle I was unemployed and had to come up with the money for the cycle by CD3. I know what it feels like and I wish you all the best. The only thing that kept my sanity was remembering why we were doing this, and that the end goal was a precious little baby. I would think of that during my down days and all those cycles that AF showed up.

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January 15th, 2007, 10:10 AM
alexa's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry the IUI didn't work. I know it sometimes takes more than one try. Will you be doing it again this cycle? I think we are going to try IUI this cycle or next depending on how it does at my appt with dr. this week.

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January 17th, 2007, 09:57 PM
Rina42308's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I am so sorry that IUI didn't work this cycle. I just want to share with you my friend did 3 IUI's before she got a bfp...so just know that it not working this cycle does not mean it will never work. I knwo you're disappointed, as I am sure I will be so upset if mine doesn't work the 1st time either but I just want to to give you some hope.

Take some time for you. The crying is good...the feelings need to come out. We're here for you.

Love and hugs,
Mommy to miracle baby 4/23/08 and four babies in heaven:lost 3/22/05 edd 10/28/05, lost 5/25/05 edd 12/26/05, lost 1/31/06 edd 9/19/06

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