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February 12th, 2007, 08:03 AM
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i tested both yesterday and this morning. both BFN. AF is due wednesday just in time for valentines day, so i am sure i'm not pg.

with my last pg i had a bfn 12dpo (which i am today) and a BFP 14 dpo. it ended up a mc.

i have been crying ever since i took the test this morning. i am so depressed. i don't know how many more months i can go through this stress.

my dr. wants me to do iui, but i'm not convinced it will help prevent another m/c or even get me pregnant. my insurance doesn't pay for any of it. i'm not sure if it's worth it.

sorry i'm so down. i just wish AF would get here so i can go through this hell again.
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February 12th, 2007, 08:27 AM
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I'm so sorry for the news... I was really hoping that you would see that BFP. I will pray for wisdom for you, so that you can decide what path you want to take next. As for now, take some time to grieve and be upset, It's always nice to be able to cry it out. Take care sweetie!

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February 12th, 2007, 08:56 AM
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I am sorry you had to see another BFN today. It really can start messing with the emotions trying to keep a happy face month after month.

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February 12th, 2007, 09:30 AM
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I'm sorry about your BFN. I'll be praying for you and your BFP for next month.
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February 12th, 2007, 10:05 AM
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I'm so sorry!

Have they checked your progesterone levels? If that is your issue in keeping the pregnancy, there are supplements... they should check it every month in your case.
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February 12th, 2007, 10:36 AM
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I am soo sorry about BFN hun... and being in limbo stinks more than the arrival of af i think... anyhow i hope that you just tested early and everything will be fine soon!
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February 12th, 2007, 11:25 AM
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yea Berans this just plain sucks!!! It shouldn't be this way!!!! I am so sorry...I have been crying for all of us since yesterday.

I feel very cheated that my IUI did not work...people warned me it may not the 1st time...but it doesn't matter. I don't think I will ever be prepared to not be pg you know? So if you do do iui and can figure out how to "prepare" as people suggest...well you'll be in better shape then me.

Some people have some great succes with IUI, if ytou can swing it financially it's worth a shot. for us it's getting tight monitarily but we will be doing it again.

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February 12th, 2007, 03:06 PM
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i'm so sorry. i have the same problem with the IUI. my dr wants to do it, but my insurance doesn't cover it. i hope things start to look up for you soon! ((((HUGS))))
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