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June 7th, 2007, 07:30 AM
djr djr is offline
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hi ladies!
i need to vent, will you listen...
So, i got my positive OPK this morning so i am scheduled for another IUI tomorrow morning...
BUT here is what i am concerned about we were planning on doing a double IUI so it will be 2 days in a row, sounds good right
Well i got the earlier than expeceted i thought that we would be doing it sunday and monday and now it is friday and saturday.
So i am sure you are wondering what the big deal is......
I work as a hair stylist and i have a very busy schedule so it is not easy to schedule things around. On saturday morning i am booked.. what do
i do???? I have 2 wedding parties coming in, i cant just ask them to reschedule, its there wedding!!!!!
It is so hard for me to just give up and say well i guess that we cant do IUI.. that doesnt fly with me, i want this way to bad.
My DH tried joking and said well we have been ttc for 2 1/2 years whats another month... He was totally joking and trying to lift my spirits.. WRONG for me i did not take it that way i am upset. I know i am probually over reacting all of this but you have such a small window i cannot just put IUI procedure off a few days that does not work as all of you know...
what do i do??
wow, i was rambling on and on, SORRY you had to listen to me crab, just a bit over the edge right know.
thanks -djr

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June 7th, 2007, 07:49 AM
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Wow, that is a real toughie. I am a hairdresser too so I know exactly what you are talking about. What I would do, is maybe do IUI on Friday but skip Saturday. Or cancel all of your reg appts. and just do the bridal parties (depending on their appt. times). If it were just plain old h/c b/d, or s/s, I would say cancel them out but wedding parties are a different animal. Brides can go nuts, plus it is their one day to be the center of attention and canceling them would be very bad, and could hurt your following if they know enough people. I hope that made sense to you. I myself would definately not cancel the bridal parties. It stinks you got stuck in this position Good Luck, and let us know how it goes.
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June 7th, 2007, 08:17 AM
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Can you schedule the IUI before or after the bridal parties? I know it's a long shot, but there's some hope there.
If not I would cancel the one on Saturday. I know that you don't want to hear that, but then maybe you could clear your schedule for the next cycle, kwim? You could do back to back IUI then on that cycle incase this one doesn't take.
The exciting news though is that it could take on the 1st try even if you don't do the second! Maybe this time next month you won'r even need the IUI!!!!!
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June 7th, 2007, 08:32 AM
djr djr is offline
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thanks ladies.... i will not or cannot cancel my wedding appointments for sat, i will get it figured out. thanks for listening again!!

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