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October 5th, 2011, 02:17 PM
Super Mommy
Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: Columbus GA
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Hi ladies,

This is a very hard update. I miscarried our precious triplets on 9-25 at 14 wks. I had a spontaneous miscarriage. I had baby A at home at in the am. We are still not sure I had baby A through my cerclage. We went to the hospital and they thought there might be hope to keep baby B & C, as long as I had baby A's placenta. But that didn't happen, I had baby B and C later that night. I was losing lots of blood and still had not had baby A's placenta yet. So they took me back for a D&C, after the D&C I had to have 2 blood transfusions. I stayed in the hospital for a couple of days. DH and I had the triplets cremated, so they will always be with us no matter where we move with the army.

We spoke to a MFM DR and they said I need to have my uterus checked to make sure it is normal, since this is my 2nd, 2nd trimester loss.We also have to go and see a genetic DR and we both have to be tested. The MFM DR also said that if we do try again that we need to do IVF and only transfer one embyro at a time b/c my body will not handle twins or triplets again. We are very nervous about trying again. We are very afraid that we will lose more babies. We are considering using a surrogate, instead of me getting pregnant again. This is my 3rd miscarriage and it is killing me.

We aren't sure were to really to go from here. It was great to get to know you ladies while I was here. I wish you ladies the best. Thanks so much for all of the T&P's.

Missing our precious angel baby 7-5-10.
Missing Matthew Taylor our beautiful boy 12-23-10
Missing our beautiful Triplets 9-25-11

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October 5th, 2011, 02:36 PM
dalynnrmc's Avatar pronounced (day-lynn)
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Oh my goodness. I've been thinking about you the past couple of days and remembered seeing the first post (someone posted a link to it for us). I am so sorry Becky. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I will pray for you and your family. May the Lord carry you through and bring you peace.

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October 5th, 2011, 06:35 PM
Rae-of-Sunshine's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Location: Florida
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I have been praying for you ever since your sister first posted in our playroom. I am so sorry for your loss!
"If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there shall Thy hand lead me and Thy right hand shall guide me."

Psalm 139:9-10
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October 5th, 2011, 10:59 PM
Super Mommy
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I'm so sorry :-( I can't imagine...
Mommy to Hayden (4/15/09) and...

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October 6th, 2011, 08:51 AM
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I'm so sorry. I hope that if and when you decide to move forward with testing that they're able to give you some answers.
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October 6th, 2011, 10:47 AM
nat1970's Avatar Nicole - Mom2Leah,Ty,TJ
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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October 6th, 2011, 11:32 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: May 2009
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although you do not know me, please accept my condolences on your loss. God be with you as you endure this sad time in your lives.
what goes around, comes around.....
speak with kindness....

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October 9th, 2011, 03:47 PM
Jara's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm sorry for the loss for your precious little ones! (hugs)

Wyatt(5) Lydia(2) Emerson(5) Kaeden(7)
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October 9th, 2011, 06:14 PM
Celry's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I'm so sorry (((hugs))).

Thank you peimum for my siggie

Dec 26 '08, BFP after 21 months thanks to acupuncture
Jan 14 '09, first u/s one strong heart beat
Jan 28, '09, second u/s, Surprise! two strong heart beats
Aug 13, '09 Arya and Eiley are born on what would have been their great grandmother's 105th birthday
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October 9th, 2011, 07:01 PM
Shannon1978's Avatar ~Formerly Donkey Lemonade
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I am sorry for your loss. I hope you get some answers soon!
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October 10th, 2011, 10:55 AM
abwright17's Avatar Ashley
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Location: Vancouver,wa
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awwww hun im soooo sorry for loss. My heart goes out to *HUGS*
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