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July 6th, 2013, 02:15 AM
Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: Arizona
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Hi, Im new to this and Im hoping this will help me...I was a single mom of two girls for about 11 years. I remarried and my husband and I decided to have another child. There is a gap of 13 years between my son and my youngest daughter, I thought I couldnt have children anymore because it had been so long since I was last pregnant. We got pregnant in 1 or 2 months, had my son at 25 weeks and my son passed 4 days after he was born back in 5/24/2011... both my husband and I were devestated! it still hurts everyday...We decided to wait 1yr after his death to try again but so far no luck, its been over a year now since we started trying and I am becoming frustrated and very emotional about the pregnancy topic. I desperately want to have another child now but Im not sure if it will happen anymore. I want to go to see a Dr. but my husband doesnt want to he feels that if its meant to be it will happen.

Since we started trying there has been at least 4 people that I know that got pregnant and one of them in fact just had there baby yesterday. I am happy for them but I cant help but get depressed!

Does anyone have a similar situation? I've really never done something like this before and I feel like its time to reach out...

Last edited by gwarnecke; July 6th, 2013 at 03:11 AM.
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July 6th, 2013, 07:55 AM
Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Jun 2013
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I have not had a pregnancy loss but there is a forum here specifically for women like you: Trying to Conceive after a Loss. I hope they can give you the support you need.
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July 6th, 2013, 10:42 AM
Rainbow Catcher's Avatar Bound and Determined
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Virginia
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Hi gwar - come join us at the TTC After Loss group. Great bunch of ladies in the same boat. Sorry for your loss.
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July 6th, 2013, 11:05 AM
Join Date: Jul 2013
Location: Arizona
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that sounds great but how do I join? Im not sure how to navigate through this webpage very well. Help!
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July 6th, 2013, 07:00 PM
wefrogy's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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Welcome to JM! here is the link to the board TTC after loss

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July 6th, 2013, 07:42 PM
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Thank you!
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