Log In Sign Up

Using Family Names....

Forum: Baby Names


Welcome to the JustMommies Message Boards.

We pride ourselves on having the friendliest and most welcoming forums for moms and moms to be! Please take a moment and register for free so you can be a part of our growing community of mothers. If you have any problems registering please drop an email to [email protected].

Our community is moderated by our moderation team so you won't see spam or offensive messages posted on our forums. Each of our message boards is hosted by JustMommies hosts, whose names are listed at the top each board. We hope you find our message boards friendly, helpful, and fun to be on!

Reply Post New Topic
  Subscribe To Baby Names LinkBack Topic Tools Search this Topic Display Modes
September 7th, 2005, 06:01 AM
Posts: n/a
Hey all -

We've still got quite a ways to go before we really need to decide on baby names, but my husband and I have been kicking around a few, and actually found that we easily agreed on some surprisingly fast. Both first & middle names are from family names, but the problem comes with the fact that if we have a boy - both names are from husband's side of the family, and from my side of the family if it's a girl:

(our last name starts with an "L")

Boy: Bennett McGuire
Girl: Jessica Avery

Do y'all think that may cause some conflict or unnecessary disappointment one one side of the family depending on what we have? I know that they really should be happy no matter what, but you know how unpredictable family is....... Also, what do you guys think of the names in general? Thanks!

Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 07:20 AM
Jen25's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Colorado
Posts: 12,443
You can never make all the family happy all the time. Somone will always be disappointed. You should go with what you like. They are great names!!
~Jen wife to Jay and mommy to a bunch!

Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 09:01 AM
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 469
I like the names you came up with, your family had better names to chose from than ours!! As far as someone being upset, that will be a toss up depending on each of your familes, try not to worry.
Teresa, Mommy to:

Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 09:07 AM
zoey's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: MN
Posts: 3,835
Tell both sides of the family that you put your names in a bucket and drew them. So that way they don't feel like you picked someones over another persons.
We are using family names too and thats what Im going to tell mine.
Even if thats not what we do.
Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 10:24 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: arlington, va
Posts: 21,980
i love both names!!! i dont think it should cause conflict at all.

Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 10:25 AM
Posts: n/a
I really like both names you chose!

If you like them, use them.
Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 11:01 AM
Posts: n/a
we picked middle names from our deceased grandparents. if i was carring a boy he would have been ty Edward --edward dh grandfather. but the baby turned out to be a girl so we used my grandma's name for ashlyn's middle... it didnt cause any conflicts. so when i have a nother baby...long time from now.... and its a boy ty edward is already picked and final. for a girl we arent gonna do family names. we picked lexie marie.
Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 11:45 AM
Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Phoenix, Arizona
Posts: 5,590
Very nice names! Just tell everyone that it will be after this family if its a girl and if its a boy it will be after this family, that way they know that you thought of each of them.
Both my boys have family middle names, Jaxons is from dh's and Xavier is from mine. There was no hurt feelings everyone was just so excited about a healthy baby.
Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 01:34 PM
dkmommy's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Missouri
Posts: 13,443
There may be some hurt feelings - but they will get over it. What matters most is that you and DH are happy. Another thing is a compromise, Avery I think can be used for a boy or a girl.....just a thought
<div align="center">
Reply With Quote
September 7th, 2005, 03:40 PM
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 349
I like your names. dont let family get you down they should just be happy that you're having a baby and want the best for it including a name.
Mama to 4 furbabies: (pup)Ditzie 1, (Dog)Millie 4, (Cat)Dale 2, and Kitten Bowzers.


<center><font face="verdana,arial,sans-serif" size="1" color="black">Matthew Clinton (Matt) is getting so big!</font>

Reply With Quote
September 8th, 2005, 06:56 AM
Posts: n/a
Thanks for the replies, ladies We had actually thought of using Bennett Avery for a boy (which is a combo. of both of our maternal grandmother's maiden names), so I guess that could still be an option, but were afraid that made it sound a little too effeminant (sp?). Suppose it really won't matter much b/c we won't be calling him by both names anyway, so I should just stop stressing over this as i'm sure that there's more important things that I could worry about

Thanks again!
Reply With Quote
September 8th, 2005, 10:14 AM
SavaAngel's Avatar Mama to AJ & Katie
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: League City, Texas
Posts: 32,402
Send a message via AIM to SavaAngel Send a message via Yahoo to SavaAngel
My DH and I aren't even TTC yet, and we have already got ours picked out. Most are from family names (and actually more from DH's side). I know I won't have that problem with my family. I think it is a great way to carry on names of our families.

You could always wait to share the name you chose until the baby is born, and then most likely your family won't say anything. They will love your cute little one so much and want to dote on it, that the name will be very low on their list of priorities. Just a thought, in case you are worried they won't like it!


PM to see if I am available to make a siggy - decisions will be made on a case by case basis.


Reply With Quote
September 8th, 2005, 01:07 PM
Join Date: Aug 2005
Posts: 223
I think it's good that you've got possibilities from both sides. Let them know that, like someone already said, they will know they were thought of, and it should be fine.

We've had different names picked out each time, and the one that wasn't used has not been carried forward to the next. (Only a middle name once) I think some family wished we'd used some of the names we thought of, but I changed my mind.

You've got to be happy with this name, and your baby has to live with it for life. Don't try to please everyone. It's impossible.

Baby Sister of Lindy and Garrett!
Reply With Quote

Topic Tools Search this Topic
Search this Topic:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 05:26 AM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2018, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.0