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July 1st, 2006, 02:15 AM
Join Date: Jun 2005
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Well my name is Linda or Blanca depending on who knows me I just thought this would be a great place to tell my story.........
I was adopted out by my wonderful birth mother Cindy who knew she wanted to keep me but knew I needed a safer life.... I had a great life with my mom Belinda and dad Jesse they were the best parents they spoiled me rotten. I grew-up knowing about Cindy and I just knew one day I would find her and my brothers. About Four years ago I found myself pregnant at 17 and decided to keep my son Chase, and that is when my search for Cindy started it's been a long rad for me trying to find her I tryed everything I knew to find my birth family. It wasn't until five days ago I looked for my brother Sammy on myspace of all places and there he was I was in such shock I had no clue what to tell him "hey I'm your sister, but you don't know me" what do you say to someone you've never meet but feel like you've known them forever. But my problem was that he was or is in Iraq so it took him two days to get back with me and it was truly amazing and sad at the sametime, see I knew I had two brothers Sammy the oldest and josh but about three years ago Josh was killed in a car accident It was very upsetting for me I'm still saddend that I will never get to meet him. But I also have two sisters Jamie and Sabrina I did know about Sabrina she was born two years after I was.
But the biggest joy I had was being able to talk to Cindy she has gone through so much and tried so hard to find me. I have cried just about nonstop the last two days talking to her. there are so many questions to ask but it's like my brain freezes when I talk to her it's just so great being able to hear her voice. She Lives I MS and I live in TX so it's alittle ways to see her I praying I will be able to do that soon.

I just thought my story would help mothers that have given the joy of motherhood to another mother, because my mom, both my mothers loved me very much and they always will.........

Linda B
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July 9th, 2006, 03:28 AM
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I think it's awesome that you have found them & great that you wanted to share your story. Best wishes for building good relationships in the future!
B - Crazy momma to my two boys
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July 9th, 2006, 11:00 AM
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Its nice to "meet" you. I am glad that you have found that BOTH of your mothers love you very much!!
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July 13th, 2006, 07:40 PM
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Thank you I to hope our relationship will grow
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