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October 17th, 2006, 12:45 PM
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I think I have some. I'm having some second thoughts about the adoption. I don't know why. Everything seemed to be progressing and we were excited about having our new baby. I guess it started when I had my last appointment with my oncologist. He said that if we wanted to ttc again, we could. I was totally opposed to it because of everything we have been through with all of the miscarriages and the cancer. Then I thought about it a little more.

Part of me is feeling like a rotten person, like I've let some little baby down. We are just going to hold on to the home study for a while. I hate that I'm using adoption as a second choice.

I hope that I've not offended anyone. I'm just trying to be honest with myself.

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October 17th, 2006, 08:46 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2005
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Oh Mindy, big hugs!! You are so not a rotten person. I always believe in going with your heart, and if your heart says that it's not the right time for you to adopt, then maybe it's not. You never know what path you will be lead down later on, so just hold on to that home study and take some time for yourself.

I wish you the very best if you do ttc. Please keep us posted!

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