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November 25th, 2012, 12:41 PM
Annika*VHKC*'s Avatar PiNk & bLue x3
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Well as I mentioned hubby ad I haven't exactly decided for sure yes I a 3rd this is a deep discussion to look at everything if we want a 3rd when Hayden turns 1 (end of May)
Well yesterday I overheard since I really don't think hubby knew I heard him but during the premiere of "Sofia the first" On Disney JR. Hubby asked Victoria if she wanted a sister to play with! And she excitedly said yes! (The show talks about Sofia and her step-sister) anyways... Hayden is almost 6 months old and we haven't been careful at all and he doesn't seem to mind which at first after giving birth he was afraid... Hmmm? During random times that I actually would say I really do want a third hubby seemed opposed.. Maybe he's hoping either for a "meant blessing" or would like another girl?
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November 25th, 2012, 03:51 PM
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I think he's jumping on board! That is awesome news.

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November 26th, 2012, 10:45 AM
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That's cool!
My DH wants kids about as much as the idea stresses him out. So he keeps telling me it's up to me. He is so wishy washy about it all. It's a little frustrating sometimes.
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November 26th, 2012, 06:43 PM
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That's cool! I don't think mine is secretly planning or hoping at all lol. He does make comments to our friends etc about having another when they do but that's about it. When I mention it lately he seems to think I'm a baby crazy weirdo? I'm so not even close lol

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November 26th, 2012, 06:50 PM
2Corinthians10:4's Avatar Platinum Supermommy
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I don't think he is secretly hoping or planning, but I do think he is warming up to the idea lol. Now when friends ask when we are going to have another one he says we are going to try soon, which is a huge win from him just ignoring the question all together.

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November 27th, 2012, 04:22 AM
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Nope he's definitely not trying to secretly plan or hope for another right now lol He was only half on board the last 2 times I got pregnant, hes knows what hes at but never wants to think of it as PLANNED or anything! WEIRDO!

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November 28th, 2012, 11:40 AM
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Yes I would say that he is. He is ready to get me pregnant today but is waiting for my sake.
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November 29th, 2012, 12:49 PM
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DH was totally like, "yay! baby!" after our oopsie a few weeks ago. I think they love to see their manliness when we walk around with our big bellies LMAO!
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