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Ben,Logan&Kaitlin'sMommy January 22nd, 2010 12:46 PM

Let's take a deep breath ladies
lets not forget why we are here!

I am here for Rebecca - I am here for my daughter

Please don't let others opinions hurt the way you feel about your daughter or son that you lost.

Please remember that we have mom's here that are grieving and sometimes we need to bite our tongues before responding

noworries January 22nd, 2010 01:09 PM

Re: Let's take a deep breath ladies
Thanks for this reminder. :)

rebeccabaltimore and more January 22nd, 2010 11:39 PM

Re: Let's take a deep breath ladies
If I can't express my feelings here, where it is supposed to be safe, then what's the point of this board?

Why can't I be honest about the fact that it's hard for me to see people in denial because I never had the chance to save my son? Where else can I say that I'm jealous - jealous because I never had the option of taking those small steps that could have saved Ethan's life?

When the March DDC made it clear that my opinion was no longer welcome, I did the right thing and came here to vent. I kept it off their board, because that's what they wanted.

If I can't give voice to these feelings here, tell me now and I'll go back to crying alone in my living room.

heathernoel January 23rd, 2010 09:54 AM

Re: Let's take a deep breath ladies
I agree, Rebecca. We HAVE a reason to be upset...we ARE the voice in the dark, crying out to others to avoid it. I'm really sorry that some mommies can't handle it...I don't freak out about breast cancer just because I'm educated about doing self checks.

Good Lord. Vent away. I am here, and I have your back.

Ben,Logan&Kaitlin'sMommy January 23rd, 2010 10:32 AM

Re: Let's take a deep breath ladies
that isn't what I meant
you can vent here

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