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jmichelle77 December 2nd, 2011 08:57 AM

What to do? What to do???
So, if I ovulate on time this month FF will tell me to test either Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. I am SO TORN as to whether I should follow their advice and wait it out or not. I mean....it would just be way too sweet to get a BFP *ON* Christmas! HOWEVER.....I don't want to "ruin" Christmas with a BFN. I'm especially torn because I really feel like we have our best chance this cycle. I am on a higher dose of Femara than I've ever taken (7.5mg) and my doc is dilating my cervix on CD 11 to give the swimmers an easier path to travel. :)

The realistic side of me says, "Who are you kidding? You know you'll be testing 3 times a day starting at 8 dpo!" LOL! But oh how I would love to get that wonderful, beautiful BFP on Christmas morning. :wub: Since starting TTC #3 one cycle ended with AF showing up 2 days before my birthday......this past cycle ended with AF showing up ON Thanksgiving Day..... If this cycle ends with AF showing up ON Christmas Day, I just think that'd be about the biggest kick in the teeth EVER!

*Melissa* December 2nd, 2011 10:17 AM

Re: What to do? What to do???
oooo tough. I know for me personally, there is no way I could wait, and then I would just be so so so nervous for Christmas it would probably totally ruin it for me.

I *REALLY* hope everything aligns and you get an awesome BFP for Christmas!!!!!

KMH December 2nd, 2011 01:47 PM

Re: What to do? What to do???
I wasn't always this way, but now I just test no matter what. If it were to be a BFP, it would be the best thing EVER, but I don't expect it. If I POAS in the morning and see a BFN, I can get on with the rest of my day without wondering and obsessing over every little thing (OMG my eye twitched...maybe I'm pregnant :eek:). I feel like I have some kind of power this way and it is easier not to let those stupid tests take over my life.

I think we all know you'll be testing every day no matter what...I hope you are posting lots of BFP pics for Christmas :)

scubagirl80 December 2nd, 2011 03:58 PM

Re: What to do? What to do???
Hmmmm....tough call. I think that it really depends on your state of mind in regard to whether it would ruin the day.

I think if it were me, I would not test, but that is because I would not be able to enjoy the day to its full extent.

jmichelle77 December 3rd, 2011 07:26 AM

Re: What to do? What to do???
Thanks, girls. :) I'm sure I am being silly even questioning it at all. I know my willpower SUCKS and I will start testing way too early anyway. ;)

scubagirl80 December 3rd, 2011 01:27 PM

Re: What to do? What to do???
LOL....mine sucks too and I probably would also!

Celry December 3rd, 2011 01:38 PM

Re: What to do? What to do???
I had the same thing 3 years ago. I suspected I was prego and waited until the 26th to test. I just didn't want any type of disappointment on Xmas. There was enough going on to keep my mind off of testing.

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