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Signs
of Sexual Abuse
Would
you know how to spot signs of sexual abuse in your child?
Surprisingly, sexual abuse happens quite frequently with parents
being completely unaware. Arming yourself and your child with
the correct information about sexual abuse and sexual offenders
is you and your child's best defense against sexual abuse.
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Know
the warning signs of sexual abuse
Behavioral
signs of sexual abuse:
- Changes
in behavior including anxiety, withdrawal, mood swings,
and rage
- Bedwetting,
nightmares, and other difficulties sleeping
- Loss
of appetite, weight loss, or weight gain
- Sudden
onset of phobias (e.g. fear of dark, fear of strangers,
fear of leaving the house)
- Displays
sexually inappropriate behavior, unusual knowledge about
sexual activity
Physical
signs of sexual abuse:
- Recurrent
urinary tract infections
- Bruising,
bleeding, pain, or itching in the genital area (may also
be seen in anus, mouth, or throat)
- Presence
of sexually transmitted disease or pregnancy in underage
child
- Stained,
torn, or bloody undergarments
- Penile
or vaginal discharge and/or odor
It
is important to remember that these are only warning signs.
Your child could have any or all of these symptoms and not
be a victim of abuse.
What
should I do if I suspect my child or another child has been
sexually abused?
If
your child has any physical signs of abuse talk to your doctor
and schedule an examination. If it is not your child you can
report your concerns by calling 1-800-4-A-CHILD®.
If your child tells you she or he has been abused listen to
your child. Try and remain calm. You will be very upset, but
it is important to stay calm. By staying calm, you help reassure
your child that she or he is ok and it is safe to tell you.
Reaffirm your child that she or he has done nothing wrong
and is not to blame. Call your doctor and your local authorities.
Preventing
sexual abuse
Talk
to your child about inappropriate touching. Explain to your
child which parts of the body are private and should not be
touched. Instruct them to tell you right away if someone,
ANYONE, tries to touch them. Explain the difference between
good and bad secrets. If a secret is making them feel uncomfortable,
they should tell you.
Supervise
your child's internt use. Sexual predators often initiate
contact via the internet. Finally, and maybe most importantly
know where your children are, who they are with, and what
they are doing. Make sure they know how to reach you at all
times.
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